About SpicyGear

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SpicyGear Β· Since 1996

Explore Each Other

John and Haley, the owners of SpicyGear
John & Haley
Woman-Owned Β· Founded 1996

Your friends in the business, since 1996.

When we started, we set out on one mission: give men, women, and couples a truly confidential place to buy adult products, at a fair price. Thirty years later, that’s still the whole idea.

We’re a real couple, not a faceless warehouse. Haley picks every toy we sell, a real person answers your messages, and every order ships in a plain box with discreet billing. Whether it’s your first toy or your fiftieth, you’ll never feel judged here.

Thanks for shopping with us. John & Haley

1996Founded by John
700+Customer reviews
0Customer lists ever sold

Who Runs SpicyGear

Woman-owned and run by a real couple. No call center, no bots.

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Owner Β· Runs the StoreHaley

Haley runs SpicyGear day to day. She picks every toy we sell, answers your questions, and makes sure every order is taken care of. If you’ve ever texted us, you’ve probably talked to her.

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Founder Β· Since 1996John

John founded SpicyGear in 1996. Today he keeps the books and builds the website you’re shopping on right now.

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Our Promise

The same promises since day one. Read our privacy policy.

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No Junk Mail

The only emails you’ll get are from us, and you can unsubscribe anytime.

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Nothing Mailed Home

No catalogs and no flyers. Nothing with our name on it shows up at your door.

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Never Sold, Rented, or Traded

Thirty years, and not one customer list has left this company.

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100% Plain Box

No logos and no product names on the outside, plus discreet billing.

Thirty Years in Thirty Seconds

1996

John founds SpicyGear with one mission: confidential shopping at a fair price.

1999

SpicyGear.com opens online, with the same plain-box promise.

2025

A rebuilt store with real-time inventory and order tracking.

Today

Woman-owned. Haley picks every toy we sell.

“Provide a truly confidential place for men, women, and couples to purchase adult products in a secure way and at a reasonable price.” Our mission since 1996.

In Their Words

Real notes customers have sent us over the years.

Your guarantee for discreet delivery and your informative details on each product put me at ease… I didn’t have to be afraid or embarrassed to buy a vibrator.

Feeling like a new woman in VT

When I arrived home and there was a plain box sitting at my door, I didn’t even know what it was! Thank you for helping to keep my privacy.

Sacramento, CA

There was never an embarrassing moment, and the people at Spicy Gear never make you feel like you’re doing anything wrong.

Barbara, Salem, OR

I explained my dilemma to your representative. She was very kind and understanding… Reputable service is hard to find these days.

Naples, TX

It’s descriptive and easy to navigate. Plus I like being able to shop from the comfort and privacy of my home.

West Hartford, CT

I ordered with free shipping and got it within 3 days. I plan on ordering from you again very soon.

J.F., Grand Forks, ND

Not Sure Where to Start?

Start with our favorites, or ask us anything. A real person answers.

SpicyGear.com
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Text us: 615-696-9140