Best Couples Sex Toys

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Want our hand-picked favorites with the reasons behind each one? Read our complete buying guide to the best sex toys for couples.

The Couple's Guide to Playing Together

Adding toys to partnered sex isn't about replacing anyone - it's about more sensation, more play, and handing over a little control. Here are the most popular ways couples do it, and where to find each at SpicyGear.

Remote & App-Controlled Vibrators

Hand your partner the remote - or the app - and let them drive. Perfect for teasing at dinner or for long-distance play. Browse Remote Control Vibrators.

Vibrating Panties

Wearable, hideable vibes built into (or clipped onto) underwear, most with a remote for hands-free, out-and-about fun. Browse Vibrating Panties.

Vibrating Cock Rings

A favorite for partnered sex - they keep him harder for longer while the built-in vibe buzzes against her clit during intercourse. Browse Vibrating Cock Rings.

Pegging Toys

For couples who love reversing roles - strap-ons and harnesses sized for beginners through to the experienced. Browse Pegging Toys and pair them with Strap-On Dildos.

Sex Swings & Sex Machines

Open up new positions and take things to the next level with swings and machines built for two. Browse Sex Swings & Sex Machines.

Sensual Extras

Set the mood with Erotic Massage oils and candles, and keep things slippery with a body-safe lubricant.

New to Shopping as a Couple?

Start with something low-pressure - a vibrating cock ring or a remote bullet is an easy, affordable first toy. Talk about what you're each curious about, keep a water-based lube handy, and remember there's no wrong way to play. For our hand-picked favorites, see our guide to the best couples sex toys.

Discreet Shipping & Billing

Everything ships in a plain, unmarked box with discreet billing on your statement - no logos, no catalog, no hints. Free USA shipping on orders over $75, and we've shipped privately since 1996.

Frequently Asked Questions

What are the best sex toys for couples to start with?
Low-pressure, affordable toys like a vibrating cock ring or a remote-control bullet are great first buys. From there, many couples explore panties, pegging, or app-controlled vibes.

What's the difference between remote-control vibrators and vibrating panties?
Remote and app vibes are about who holds the control (including from a distance); vibrating panties are specifically wearable underwear vibes. Many products are both - wear the panty, hand over the remote.

Do couples toys work for long-distance relationships?
Yes - app-controlled vibrators can be operated from anywhere with a phone, which is why they're popular with long-distance couples.

Is shipping discreet?
Yes - everything ships in a plain, unmarked box with discreet billing on your statement.