BDSM Collars and Leashes: Wear Who You Belong To
Nothing sets the tone of a scene faster than a collar. Buckle one on and the power exchange is official, no words needed. Our BDSM collars and leashes run from soft lace and subtle chrome chokers you could almost wear out, to premium leather collars, matching collar and leash sets, and collars with attached nipple or clit clamps for when a little tug should be felt everywhere.
Build out the look with bondage cuffs that clip right to the collar, bondage restraints for full control, and a ball gag to finish the scene. Just starting out? A bondage kit often includes a collar and leash.
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How to Choose a BDSM Collar
Material. Leather and faux leather feel classic and substantial, lace and satin read softer and sexier, and chrome or metal chokers make a striking statement piece. Lined collars are the most comfortable for longer wear.
Fit. A collar should sit snug but never tight. You should always be able to slide two fingers between the collar and the neck, and breathing or swallowing should never be restricted. Buckles and adjustable straps make getting the fit right easy.
Leash or no leash. A leash adds the tug-and-follow element of pet play and power play. Choose a set with a sturdy D-ring and clip, and always lead gently. A leash is for guiding, never for pulling against the neck.
Why Shop SpicyGear for BDSM Collars
We have been selling adult toys since 1996. Every order ships fast in a plain, unmarked box with a discreet billing name, US shipping is free over $75, and we have never sold a customer's name. Explore the rest of our BDSM and bondage department to complete your scene.
BDSM Collar FAQ
What does a BDSM collar mean?
A BDSM collar is a symbol of power exchange. Wearing one usually signals submission or ownership within a scene or relationship, and some couples use a play collar for scenes and a subtle day collar for everyday wear.
How tight should a BDSM collar be?
Snug enough to stay put but loose enough to slide two fingers underneath. It should never press on the throat or restrict breathing, and you should check the fit again during play.
Can you wear a collar and leash for pet play?
Yes, collar and leash sets are a favorite for pet play and role play. Use the leash to guide rather than pull, and keep tension off the neck. Clip-on cuffs and restraints can connect to many collars too.
Do you ship collars discreetly?
Always. Every order leaves in a plain, unmarked box with no logos, and the charge shows a discreet billing name. US shipping is free over $75, and we have been doing this since 1996.