Haley’s Top 20 – Straight From My Nightstand
Welcome to my personal collection. These twenty aren’t here because a brand paid for placement – they’re here because they actually live in our house, and I’d be a little lost without them. They’re what I reach for on a slow Sunday morning when the door’s locked and the coffee’s going cold. They get packed in my suitcase before the clothes do. They’re in the pool bag, in the glovebox for a long drive when I can’t quite keep my hands to myself, waiting in the drawer for the moment he walks through the door. Every single one earned its place the same delicious way – by making me come back for more. So if you’ve ever wondered what the woman who runs a sex toy company keeps for herself, it’s all right here. Take notes. – Haley
Haley's Top 20 Favorite Sex Toys
Haley's Top 20 Favorite Sex Toys
Haley's Top 20 Favorite Sex Toys
Haley's Top 20 Favorite Sex Toys
Clitoral Vibrators
Haley's Top 20 Favorite Sex Toys
Male Sex Dolls
Haley's Top 20 Favorite Sex Toys
Haley's Top 20 Favorite Sex Toys
G Spot Vibrators
Haley's Top 20 Favorite Sex Toys
Sex Swings & Sex Machines
Rabbit Vibrators
Haley's Top 20 Favorite Sex Toys
Spicy Picks - Our Favorite Sex Toys
Haley's Top 20 Favorite Sex Toys
Clit Suckers & Rose Toys
Haley's Top 20 Favorite Sex Toys
Haley's Top 20 Favorite Sex Toys
Haley's Top 20 Favorite Sex Toys
Haley's Top 20 Favorite Sex Toys
Vedo Gee Plus G-Spot Bullet Vibrator – Rechargeable & Waterproof
Haley's Top 20 Favorite Sex Toys
A Few of My Can't-Live-Withouts
The One I'd Never Give Up: The Magic Wand
If I could keep only one, it'd be this. The Magic Wand doesn't ask permission - deep, relentless, and it works every single time. Plug it in, lie back, and you'll understand why it's been the gold standard for decades. See all our Magic Wands.
When I Want to Be Teased: Bloomgasm Enchanted Rose
Some nights I don't want buzzing - I want that slow, pulsing pull that builds until I can't take it anymore. The Enchanted Rose sucks in waves instead of vibrating, and most people describe it as the closest thing to a real mouth. They're not wrong. More in Clit Suckers & Rose Toys.
Best of Both Worlds: Aura Dual Bunny
When I want everything at once - filled up and teased on the outside at the same time - I reach for a rabbit. The Aura Dual Bunny runs both motors independently, so I'm in complete control of the build. Browse all our Rabbit Vibrators.
The One in My Suitcase: Magic Wand Mini
All that famous power, sized to disappear into a carry-on. The Magic Wand Mini comes everywhere with me - because a hotel bed is no reason to go without.
For Him to Drive: Satisfyer Double Joy
I wear the Satisfyer Double Joy and hand him the app. Across the dinner table, across the room, across the country - he decides when, and I just have to keep my composure. Good luck with that. More in Remote Control Vibrators.
Want the Full Breakdown?
I wrote a complete guide to choosing the right vibrator - types, power, and which is best for what. Read The Best Vibrators for Women, or see John's Top 20 if you're shopping for him.
Discreet Shipping & Billing
Everything I love ships the way you'd want it to - in a plain, unmarked box with discreet billing. No logos, no hints. We've shipped privately since 1996.
Frequently Asked Questions
What are the best sex toys for women?
It comes down to what you like - clitoral (wands, rose toys, bullets), internal/G-spot, or both at once (rabbits). My Top 20 above is the shortcut: every one is something I genuinely use.
What's the best vibrator for beginners?
Start with the Magic Wand Mini or a small bullet - approachable, affordable, and impossible to mess up.
Is shipping discreet?
Always - a plain, unmarked box with discreet billing on your statement.