Tom of Finland Fisting Formula Desensitizing Cream – 8 oz

An Oil-Based Fisting Formula With a Legacy

Tom of Finland’s art has defined bold, unapologetic masculinity for more than half a century, and this Fisting Formula carries the name into the bedroom. It’s an oil-based cream, the slickest kind of lube there is, with 5% benzocaine for a slight numbing effect. It’s made for deep, stretching play that needs glide to last.

Why Oil-Based

Oil doesn’t soak in or dry out the way water-based gels do, so one application goes a long way. The trade-off is compatibility: oil weakens latex, so it isn’t for use with latex condoms, and it can break down TPE, PVC and jelly toys.

Slightly Numbing

The benzocaine takes the edge off without switching sensation off. Use a small amount to start, add more only when you need it, and keep the pace slow.

What’s in the Jar

• Size: 8 fl oz
• Formula: oil-based, white cream
• Active: 5% benzocaine
• Don’t mix: the manufacturer says not to combine it with the Tom of Finland Fisting Lubricant

Cleanup

Oil-based formulas need warm water and soap to come off, and they can mark sheets, so use a dark towel. For toys, reach for a water-based lube instead, and clean them afterward with a toy cleaner.

The Long Game

A thick, white scoop, warmed between your hands, and the glide feels endless. Nothing dries out, nothing needs topping up, nothing pulls you out of it. It’s a slow night, and this is what lets it stay slow.

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Frequently Asked Questions

Is Tom of Finland Fisting Formula oil-based?
Yes. It’s an oil-based cream, which makes it extremely slick and long-lasting.

Is it numbing?
Slightly. It contains 5% benzocaine. Use a small amount, go slowly and stop if anything feels sharp or wrong.

Can I use it with condoms?
Not with latex condoms – oil weakens latex.

Can I use it with toys?
Keep it off TPE, PVC and jelly toys, which oil can damage. Use a water-based lube with toys.

Can I mix it with Tom of Finland Fisting Lubricant?
No. The manufacturer says the two formulas aren’t compatible.