New Cummers Strap-On Kit

A First Strap-On Made for Beginners

If you and your partner are curious about pegging but a wall of intimidating gear has kept you on the sidelines, this is the on-ramp. The New Cummers Strap-On Kit pairs a slim, body-safe silicone dildo with a fully adjustable harness, so there’s nothing to figure out and nothing to overcommit to – just strap in, lube up, and explore at your own pace. Sportsheets built it specifically for newcomers, and it shows.

A Slim, Body-Safe Dildo

The included silicone dildo is deliberately modest: 5.5″ long and a slim 0.87″ across, which is exactly what you want the first time. It’s non-porous, phthalate-free silicone – body-safe and easy to clean – and that slender shape makes the learning curve gentle instead of daunting. Start here, get comfortable, and you’ll know your own pace.

A Harness That Actually Fits

The harness uses 4-way adjustable straps that cinch to a custom fit and comfortably accommodate hips up to about 60″. The hardware is nickel-free for sensitive skin, and the straps are machine-washable, because real play gets messy and cleanup shouldn’t be a chore. It’s light, comfortable, and stays put once you’ve set it.

Room to Grow

The kit’s nitrile O-ring pops out and swaps, so the same harness will hold any flared-base dildo up to 1.25″ wide. When you’re ready to size up or try a different shape, you keep the harness you already trust and just change the toy (extra dildos sold separately).

Your First Time on the Other Side

Tonight the roles flip, and there’s something electric about that. You buckle the harness on, feel the unfamiliar weight of being the one in control, and watch your partner’s breath change as they realize you mean it. Go slow, pour on the lube, and let the anticipation stretch – this is brand-new territory for both of you, and that’s exactly the point. The kit that gets you there is one click away.

Lube, Care, and Getting Started

Two rules make a first time good: go slow, and use plenty of water-based lube – and with this dildo, water-based is required, since silicone lubes aren’t compatible with the silicone toy. Let the receiving partner set the pace and depth, check in often, and stop if anything’s uncomfortable. Afterward, toss the straps in the wash and clean the dildo with warm water and mild soap or a dedicated toy cleaner. New to all of this together? Browse more sex toys for couples.

Why Buy It From SpicyGear

We’re a married couple who’ve run this shop since 1996, and every order ships in a plain, unmarked box with discreet billing – no logos, no hints. Free U.S. shipping over $75, real people on text support, and a catalog we use ourselves. Questions? The woman half of the business answers them.

Is this good for total beginners?
Yes – it’s designed for first-timers. The included dildo is slim (5.5″ long, 0.87″ wide) and the harness is simple to adjust, so there’s no steep learning curve.

What size is the included dildo?
It’s a slender silicone dildo measuring 5.5″ in length and 0.87″ in diameter. The harness O-ring can hold dildos up to 1.25″ wide if you upgrade later.

What lube should I use?
Water-based lube only, and plenty of it. The dildo is silicone, which isn’t compatible with silicone lubricants, and lube makes first-time play far more comfortable.

Will the harness fit?
The 4-way adjustable straps cinch to a custom fit and comfortably accommodate hips up to about 60″.

Can I use other dildos with it?
Yes. The nitrile O-ring is swappable and accepts any flared-base dildo up to 1.25″ in diameter, so the harness grows with you.