Sex & Mischief Strap-On Harness + Silicone Dildo Kit

Everything You Need to Start Pegging

If pegging is on your list but the gear feels intimidating, this is the answer: one box with a comfortable harness and a beginner-friendly silicone dildo, ready to go. The Sex & Mischief kit from Sportsheets is built for exactly this moment – a first-timer’s strap-on for pegging that keeps everything simple so you can focus on each other.

A Slim Dildo Made for Beginners

The dildo is genuinely slender – about 5 inches insertable and just 0.87 inches wide – which is exactly what a first time calls for. It is body-safe silicone, smooth and flexible, so the first slow entry is easy and comfortable rather than daunting.

A Comfortable, Adjustable Harness

The low-rise harness is soft, adjustable, and designed to fit most body types without digging in or shifting around. It holds the dildo securely so the wearer can move naturally and stay focused on the moment.

Body-Safe Silicone

The dildo is nonporous, body-safe silicone – easy to keep clean and gentle on skin. Pair it with a water-based lube (silicone lubes can damage silicone), and reapply generously.

Take the Lead

Tonight you take the lead. You buckle in, adjust the harness until it feels like it is yours, and watch your partner’s breath change as you take your time. There is no rush and nothing to prove – just the two of you, a new kind of closeness, and the quiet confidence of knowing you have everything you need. Start slow; it is all right here in one box.

Materials and Care

Body-safe silicone dildo, adjustable harness. Wash the dildo with warm soapy water or a toy cleaner, use a water-based lube, and let everything dry before storing. New to this? Our pegging guide walks through the whole first time.

Why Buy It Here

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Frequently Asked Questions

Is this a good kit for a pegging beginner?
Yes – it’s one of the friendliest starters we carry. The dildo is genuinely slim (about 0.87 inches wide), the harness is low-rise and comfortable, and everything you need comes in one box.

What’s included?
A comfortable adjustable harness and a body-safe silicone dildo. Add a water-based lube and you’re ready.

What lube should I use?
A water-based lube – the dildo is silicone, so skip silicone lubes, which can degrade silicone over time.

Can it be used for strap-on play beyond pegging?
Absolutely. It works for any pairing and any kind of strap-on play – his P-spot, her G-spot, or anywhere in between.

How do you clean it?
Wash the silicone dildo with warm soapy water or a toy cleaner and let it dry. Clean the harness per its care instructions, and store everything dry.