Dildos

---

How to Choose the Right Dildo

With 430 options on the shelf, the easiest way to find your match is to narrow by material, size, and style. Here is how the collection breaks down.

By Material

Body-safe silicone is the go-to for a soft, lifelike feel that warms to your body - it is what our realistic dildos are built from. Prefer something firm, non-porous, and ready for temperature play? A glass dildo holds warm or cold and cleans up in seconds.

By Size

New to this? Begin with our small and medium shapes and a generous amount of water-based lube. Ready for more? Step up to large and girthy models or explore our best-selling big black dildos for serious heft.

By Style and Play

Bringing a partner in? A strap-on dildo is built for harness play, while double dildos are made to be shared. Want pinpoint internal stimulation? Reach for a curved G-spot dildo, or chase a fuller stretch with our fisting dildos.

By Realism

For the most lifelike experience, our porn star molded dildos are cast from real performers, and squirting and ejaculating dildos add cumplay to the mix. Want a one-of-a-kind? Make a mold of your own with a clone-your-own kit.

Why Shop SpicyGear for Dildos

We have sold dildos online since 1996, and we have kept it simple: only body-safe materials, real prices, and total discretion. Every order leaves in plain packaging with no labels or logos and a discreet billing descriptor, ships free over $75 from our US warehouses in Florida and New Jersey, and is backed by our lowest-price guarantee. Questions before you buy? A real human - the woman half of the couple who runs the place - actually answers.

Dildos FAQs

What is the best material for a dildo?

It comes down to feel and care. Body-safe silicone is the most popular - it warms to body temperature and has a soft, lifelike give, which is why our realistic dildos use it. Glass is non-porous, ultra-smooth, and holds heat or cold for temperature play. Both are non-toxic and easy to clean; the right pick is whichever sensation you want.

What size dildo should a beginner start with?

Start smaller than you think. A 4 to 6 inch insertable length in a slim to medium girth is plenty for a first dildo, and plenty of lube makes everything easier. You can always size up to our large and big black styles once you know what you enjoy.

How do I clean and care for a dildo?

Wash it before and after every use with warm water and a mild, fragrance-free soap or a dedicated toy cleaner, then let it air dry fully before storing. Use a water-based lubricant with any toy to keep the surface safe, and store each piece separately so materials do not react with one another.

What is a realistic dildo?

A realistic dildo is sculpted to look and feel like a real penis, with a defined head, a veined shaft, and often a suction-cup base for hands-free play. Ours are molded in body-safe silicone for natural flexibility and a lifelike feel.

Are your dildos body-safe?

Yes. We stock dildos made from non-toxic, body-safe materials like platinum silicone and tempered glass, and we leave the cheap, porous novelty materials off our shelves. Pair any toy with a water-based lubricant for the safest, most comfortable experience.

Do you ship dildos discreetly?

Always. Every order leaves in plain packaging with no labels or logos and a discreet billing descriptor - no one but you will know what is inside. US shipping is free over $75, and we have been doing this since 1996.