Sex Toys for Couples

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The Couple's Guide to Playing Together

Adding toys to partnered sex isn't about replacing anyone - it's about more sensation, more play, and handing over a little control. Here are the most popular ways couples do it, and where to find each at SpicyGear.

Remote & App-Controlled Vibrators

Hand your partner the remote - or the app - and let them drive. Perfect for teasing at dinner or for long-distance play. Browse Remote Control Vibrators.

Vibrating Panties

Wearable, hideable vibes built into (or clipped onto) underwear, most with a remote for hands-free, out-and-about fun. Browse Vibrating Panties.

Vibrating Cock Rings

A favorite for partnered sex - they keep him harder for longer while the built-in vibe buzzes against her clit during intercourse. Browse Vibrating Cock Rings.

Pegging Toys

For couples who love reversing roles - strap-ons and harnesses sized for beginners through to the experienced. Browse Pegging Toys and pair them with Strap-On Dildos.

Sex Swings & Sex Machines

Open up new positions and take things to the next level with swings and machines built for two. Browse Sex Swings & Sex Machines.

Sensual Extras

Set the mood with Erotic Massage oils and candles, and keep things slippery with a body-safe lubricant.

New to Shopping as a Couple?

Start with something low-pressure - a vibrating cock ring or a remote bullet is an easy, affordable first toy. Talk about what you're each curious about, keep a water-based lube handy, and remember there's no wrong way to play. For our hand-picked favorites, see our guide to the best couples sex toys.

Discreet Shipping & Billing

Everything ships in a plain, unmarked box with discreet billing on your statement - no logos, no catalog, no hints. Free USA shipping on orders over $75, and we've shipped privately since 1996.

Frequently Asked Questions

What are the best sex toys for couples to start with?
Low-pressure, affordable toys like a vibrating cock ring or a remote-control bullet are great first buys. From there, many couples explore panties, pegging, or app-controlled vibes.

What is the difference between remote-control vibrators and vibrating panties?
Remote and app vibes are about who holds the control (including from a distance); vibrating panties are specifically wearable underwear vibes. Many products are both - wear the panty, hand over the remote.

Do couples toys work for long-distance relationships?
Yes - app-controlled vibrators can be operated from anywhere with a phone, which is why they're popular with long-distance couples.

Is shipping discreet?
Yes - everything ships in a plain, unmarked box with discreet billing on your statement.