Anal Sex Toys 101
Posted by Haley on Aug 10, 2021
A Buyers Guide To Anal Sex Toys
This buyer’s guide was written for individuals and couples with some experience in anal play. If you’re new to the anal play game, please see our beginner's article: Beginner's Buying Guide- Anal Plugs. Anal sex toys can be used by either sex. They stimulate the nerves surrounding your anus.
Since you’re still here, I’ll take that as confirmation you know the bare basics (get it- bare!) of butt stuff. There is a HUGE market for anal play sex toys. Through our 25 years of experience in this business, we have amASSed quite a bit of hand-dandy information and offer products we believe are the best for ourselves and our customers.
In this guide, we will break down some of the most popular types of anal toys and their benefits and then provide you with our favorite anal sex toy in that category. Whether you’re interested in solo play or couples anal play, we guarantee you’ll find the best fit for you and your butthole.
Anal Toy Types
Butt plugs are probably the most common type of anal play sex toys. They’re meant to be inserted into your butthole and designed with a base or handle at the bottom to allow for easy insertion and comfortable removal. Other than the base design, they come in tons of different sizes, shapes, textures, and colors. Some of them don’t vibrate, some of them do, and some of them can be used with or without a bullet inserted. Some of them even inflate! For women, an added benefit is increased pressure on the vaginal wall which provides enhanced vaginal penetration pleasure. For men, butt plugs stimulate the prostate (which is kind of like the male version of the G-Spot, but it’s in the butt).
Anal beads are a a type of anal sex toy with a series of beads is graduating sizes. The smallest bead is at one end while the opposite end has the base of the toy. They are designed to be inserted one at a time from the smallest bead to the largest bead. For removal, you simply grasp the base, usually either a ring-type or a T-shaped handle type, and pull them out slowly. Removal timing is essential. The optimum time is to pull them out while your partner climaxes. Each bead stimulates the super sensitive nerve endings in your partner’s anus with each bead. Anal beads can greatly intensify your partner’s orgasm, making them perfect for couples. Anal beads can be more on the standard style or they can be vibrating anal beads, adding even more exhilaration.
Dildo-shmildo, right? Wrong! Using dildos for anal play, pegging, and in a strap on situation are experiences like no other. While it’s not for everyone, anal dildos can allow you and your partner to enjoy the benefits of traditional thrusting associated with penetrative sex, no vagina required. While all anal dildos can be used for vaginal penetration, not all dildos intended for vaginal penetration should be used for anal dildo play. It’s important that any anal sex toy you used has a flared base to prevent over-insertion. We’ve all seen and heard those embarrassing stories of an object becoming lost in someone’s anus- don’t let that be you! Caution is key.
While butt plugs are great for prostate stimulation, prostate anal toys are designed specifically for the prostate. The prostate is akin to a woman’s G-Spot and responds well to vibration, massage, and pressure. After arousal, prostate anal toys can take your man’s climax to the next level. Prostate massaging anal toys came in vibrating and non-vibrating styles. For a specific guide on stimulating your P-Spot, check out: The Male P-Spot - A Spicy Road Map To Prostate Stimulation
Staff Picks (Our Favorites)
The list below contains our favorite products (or 3) from each of the categories above. Not to sound like a broken record, but please keep in mind this list is not for beginners. Anal play requires patience and time to let your body or your partner’s body to adjust. There are several products in this list that are one the larger side and should always be used with caution.
We consider this a medium to large size butt plug, measuring at 3.5 insertable inches. The tinted nubs near the base increase blood flow and sensation for your nerve ending rich sphincter. It features a glass design that’s perfect for temperature play. A quick dip in cold or hot water can create a whole new world of sensation. Be cautious with temperature play as super cold or super hot temperatures can cause discomfort or injury. This fracture- resistant and hypoallergenic toy is easy to clean.
Adam & Eve Pink Gem Anal Plug Large by Evolved Novelties
As the name states, this is a large butt plug. While the insertable length (3.73 inches) is circumference is a comfortably large 1.63 inches. The polished aluminum gives you a heavy, full feeling which adds to the perceived size and it can also be used for temperature play. The flared base has a pink gem that adds a playful sparkle to your playful hole. This butt plug comes with a black drawstring carry pouch and is super easy to clean.
Cody Rechargeable Butt Plug by Maia Toys
Measuring at 4.9 inches in total length, this butt plug is large- but also versatile. With something this large, you definitely want something tapered for easy insertion and removable- check! It features a T-shaped curved handle that contours to your butt once inserted. My favorite feature is the removable bullet vibrator (named Jessi) that provides 10 functions. The entire product, including the bullet, is completely waterproof and submersible which is perfect for those bath or shower time settings.
Firefly Pleasure Beads by NS Novelties
These anal beads are everything anal beads should be. These graduated silicone beads on a thermoplastic elastomer string are flexible and comfortable, making them a great choice for your first set. This product is glow in the dark and comes in two pastel color options.There anal beads measure at 11.8 total inches.
Booty Call Booty Bender by California Exotic Novelties
This beaded probe (kind of like anal beads, but more wand-like than the traditional beads-on-a-string style) is very flexible for perfect positioning. It vibrates and features 3 intense speeds with an easy-push button. The control base is significantly wider than the insertable beads which helps to prevent over-insertion. It’s completely waterproof too! The beads themselves are made of silky smooth and body safe silicone while the base is made of body safe ABS plastic. This vibrating probe is battery operated and measures at 7 inches total.
Hero 7.5in Cocksmith Dildo by Nasstoys
This dildo is realistic and completely versatile. It can be used anally or vaginally. But the suction cup base doubles as a base to prevent over-insertion. This is also harness compatible for strap-on play. And, personally, I just prefer dildos that have balls! It’s very flexible and constructed of PVC with an insertable length of 5 inches- not too small, not to big, making it perfect for anal play.
Anal Fantasy Elite Silicone Anal Teaser by Pipedream Products
If you prefer an anal dildo that’s not quite so realistic, this might be perfect for you. With a tapered phallic shape and 9 vibrating functions, this anal toy works for anal and prostate stimulation. It’s USB rechargeable so you’re not scrambling for batteries. Total length measures at 4.7 inches. The product package includes a finger massager to make sure you’re primed and ready for insertion and also has a sample of Pipedream Products’s Toy Refresh Cleaner.
Mood Naughty 2 Large by Doc Johnson Novelties
For all the men out there looking for an absolutely exquisite prostate stimulation experience, look no further. This truly is the best one we’ve tried. While this is technically a butt plug, the unique design stimulates the sphincter and the prostate at the same time with a contoured T-shape base for easy removal. With 5.5 insertable inches and a circumference of 1.5 inches, this toy is not for prostate toy beginners. However, for the men with experience in anal play, this will provide the perfect amount of that full feeling while giving pressure to your precious P-Spot.
Rude Boy Blackby Rocks Off
If you’re looking to take your prostate anal play to the next level, this is for you! It massages both your prostate and anus. It’s constructed on body safe silicone, giving it a silky smooth finish. It’s 100% waterproof and powered by a waterproof bullet vibrator. Unlike other battery operated toys, this one comes with a battery so it’s ready to use right out of the box. The unique shape prevents over-insertion, hits you in just the right spot, and provides a hand-free experience so you can focus on the rest of your body or your partner’s body. This climax-intensifying prostate vibrator is perfect for solo play or for use by couples.